Sunday, March 21, 2010

Lasagna Anyone?

Okay, I hate lasagna. Always have, always will. But this post isn't about food... it's about gardening.

I come from a long line of gardeners. My great.grandfather was a sharecropper in Mississippi. I've only heard stories from my mother and grandparents, but I believe that out of their poverty grew great ingenuity, perseverance and a whole heap of other good things. Traits that I believe I have in my blood... who make me, in part, who I am today.

My grandfather- the grand.man whose name was given to my first.born, was a master gardener himself. I grew up between long rows of tomato plants... fuzzy, green towers on either side of me. Heaps of compost mounded into tall, round.top rows with deep trenches on either side for walking- or crawling... rows strait as arrows as far as my little eyes could see.

He had several gardens spaced over his acreage and grew everything.
Corn. Butter Beans. Peanuts. Potatoes. Squashes. Cucumbers...
But my favorite crop was his Sugar Cane. During the warm months, we'd walk to the cane and he'd let us pic out a stalk. He'd reach into the pocket of his work jumper and pull out his pocket knife and in one circular motion ringing around the stalk with his knife and thumb, he'd cut a 6" or so piece off right above the cane joint. Then with the stalk in one hand, he'd run the flat side of his blade down the cane, peeling off the tough skin in one smooth motion. He'd cut little half inch plugs off and spit them in half, and give them for us to chew.

The taste is like nothing else. Warm. Sweet. Sort of heady like syrup or honey. The stalk would crunch beneath my teeth pressing the sweet liquid out... I'd chew and chew, sucking all the sweet out- then we'd spit the pulpy fiber part out on the ground of the pasture as we'd walk from the cane patch to our next adventure.
*Me and Tboy running back from the pond and Back40... along side of one of PawPaw's acre long gardens.

My mother inherited his green thumb and flare for the dramatic. My mom is happiest when she is elbow deep in dirt planting, transplanting, pruning, picking... There hasn't been a year in my life that my mom hasn't grown a summer and winter garden with bumber crop yields. Except the year after my grandfather died... This is her there in the photo below.
I was a married woman before I ever bought jelly at the store. Growing up, we ate what we grew, canned, froze and put up in the freezer. Putting up our produce was a family affair--- we all pitched in scraping those corn cobs, or wiping the tops of the mason jars as they came out of their water bath. We ate the fish we caught fresh nearly every week. I have healthy habits now, because I lived them all my life.


As newlyweds, we bought our first little house nestled deep into my Favorite Forest, I was determined to grow something... Even in my apartment years, I never went without container herbs. My established yard was covered in dappled shade most of the day, but still, I was able to grow tomatoes and peppers along my fence line and fell into raising 82 monarch butterflies from eggs. I grew generations of sunflowers, saving seeds from the spent heads each year.

Even though it was minuscule in the grand scheme of what my mom and grandfather could do- My mom raved over my pesto and laughed over my landscaped beds turned vegetable gardens.

And now... OH! Two summers have gone by in our new house and no garden. It's just so intimidating. First of all, I live in a new construction with minimal landscaping. The majority of space is just sodded ground on top of river clay and other uninhabitable stuff. I hate the idea of having to cut in new beds and amend the soil. It would take so much just to get the soil conditioned enough to support life. And our neighborhood restrictions limits vegi gardens to raised beds only. SOooo that's what I'm thinking!

James loves gardening and growing things. Bugs. Butterflies. Vegis. He's always been underfoot exploring as I planted our garden each summer in Texas. He's raised ladybugs and monarch butterflies from eggs/pupas.
*He's 2.5 years old here...



And besides all that- I believe, I want to believe that part of that grand.man lives inside his little soul. That maybe... somehow... they share more than a name. And I want Jax to share the same experiences, too.
*James chewing on a freshly picked Purple Hull Pole bean from NaNa's garden... he's almost 5 months here.

*One and a half years old...

*Three years here after James pulled a bucket full of turnips.

So with all of my reservations aside, I've researched raised bed gardening... and my mom threw an idea at me: Lasagna gardening. She picked the book up for a dollar on one of her thrift/junk/antique shopping trips. It's an organic method of gardening that utilizes a sheet composting method. Basically, I won't be tilling down into the soil, adding amendments to the soil to make it usable--- but rather composting in layers, building my own dirt upwards. I'm very familiar with composting... and having unlimited supply of Black Gold from my mom's pile--- but I've never composted for myself, other than simple stuff like using grass clippings and leaves to mulch in existing beds.

SOOOO... James and I are working on the areas that we want to put our raised bed or three. We are shooing for a small vegi garden with Tomatoes, peppers, pole beans, and maybe if we have space- squash, and cucumbers. And a hefty herb garden... with flowers mixed in. We've got a few blackberry and blueberry bushes that are patiently waiting to get out of their pots and into the ground...

***We've got so much going on at our little house--- our boys are growing up! I hope I can get this together before too long. It would have been better for me to have built my beds in the fall- and let them 'cook' and break down all winter--- BUT I didn't do that. *sigh* So I may just press on and see what happens...

Anyone with barn litter, leaves, and other high carbon materials to compost? I'll totally come and pick them up!!!

Peace, love, and peat.moss.
xo
lmkw

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

To the Moon...


This past weekend, I loaded up the car and drove to Houston to attend Tate Henry's 5th Birthday. He's my best friend's little boy and I adore him. He's James' best friend and we couldn't imagine not being there to help him celebrate.

Tate's dearest obsession is Star Wars. Needless to say, we celebrated his birthday at Space Center Houston. James thought the whole place was magical... and I'd have to agree with him. It was. We left theDuckling with the grandparents- which means I got to be completely hands.on with the Big Boys.

But let's back.track. Stop One: Granna's for cupcakes and presents!



Then to space!


James Neal checking out the current astronaut roster... so attentive!

The Great Slide was prolly my favorite part. It's about 3 stories high or so... and we all went down together in one big smushed pile. You really forget how much fun it is to be a kid... :)





Oh my goodness! What a trip! We treated the boys to matching astronaut suits and helmets on our way out. Aren't they just the sweetest things? *Thanks Moon for inviting us to take part in things... I can't tell you what it means to me to have yall sharing this life with us. :)

I'm so glad to be a mom. Becoming a parent is such a dramatic transformation... but I've never been happier in my whole life. And I believe it all stems from Love. More love than you could ever imagine... it's heavenly. :)

Peace, love, and mission.control.
xo
lmkw

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

UPDATE: Meghan & Moses in Uganda

***UPDATE*** We've sold all the jambalaya we have! But if you still want to donate to this fantastic situation, follow the link to their blog and donate there. Thanks so much to my friends and readers! See yall Thursday. xo


Oh sweet readers!!!

Remember my friend Meghan? And her trip to get her 3 year old son Moses? Remember? Well TWO MONTHS LATER and she is STILL IN UGANDA!

Basically the court systems are still ironing out the new 'details' that will legally allow her and 25 other American citizens to return home with their children. But until then, they must remain in Uganda... it's been 2 months... and is likely to take even more time.

HOWEVER, Meghan has filed a 'new' adoption case citing medical concerns allowing her to adopt Moses in Uganda and bring him back to the states for treatment. This may allow her to return home with Moses sooner rather than later. But starting over from scratch with a new adoption case has it's stresses. One being the new legal fees and plane flight necessary to get her hubby, Chris, to Uganda to attend these necessary hearings.

So........... we plan on pitching in by making sure that The Matts have the money necessary to GET THIS DONE and get this mother and bebe HOME where they belong!

(If you look close, you can see his little dimple right there on the side of his cheek... Which makes Moses the third little boy with dimples that I'm officially in love with. :)

I'm SO EXCITED! YOU can help this sweet Momma and her precious family!

If you live in the Greater Baton Rouge Area, please consider purchasing a Jambalaya Lunch/Dinner this Thursday, March 18th.

Here are the official details taken from their website:

Bringing Moses Home!
Jambalaya Box Lunch Sale

$5.00 a box
We will deliver!

Meghan Matt has been in Uganda for 6 weeks battling for her son. She has been fighting to bring Moses home!

IT’S TIME!

On March 26th, Chris and Meghan will present their adoption case to a judge. He will see their complete and utter love for their child. He will be moved by the attachment Moses has to his Mommy. He will be touched by the extreme lengths The Matt’s have gone to have their son home where he belongs.

WE NEED TO GET THEM THERE!

The unexpected expenses of Meghan’s extended stay, adoption cost and flights have drained their savings. By ordering lunch you are helping Chris fly to Uganda. You will be helping him be with his wife and son as they prepare for their hearing. You will be bringing a mother and son home. You will be reuniting a family after nearly 2 months.

Ask your office, your church and family members if they would like to enjoy a wonderful lunch and be a blessing to a family at the same time. We will deliver for orders of 5 or more box lunches. Please comment below with your name, phone number, email address, number of boxes and if you would like to have your lunch delivered. We will contact you for directions if you choose to have your lunch delivered.
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Yippee!!!

So! For $5 bucks you don't have to worry about making dinner AND you get to make a difference that will change a life!

Well, I suppose you would change more than a life- but lives (mine included) :) I'm just ready to meet this little.man and I know for a fact that he has new shoes waiting in his closet right now that are meant for his feet! And I, of all people, know how fast boys grow (!!!) We've GOT to get this bebe home before his feet get too big. :)

***If any of my ZACHARY/CENTRAL readers want to order a lunch/dinner let me know! I'll bring it to you!!!

We are going to do whatever we can to bring our friends HOME!!!

Besides, I'm ready to start planning a 'Welcome Home Meg & Moe' party. I want to hear his laugh for myself and see his pearly.white smile in person!!! :)

***And if you are outside of our city, that stinks because WE HAVE THE BEST FOOD EVER here in South Louisiana! Fact.

But if you feel compelled to donate regardless, bring it Sugar! :) I know they have a paypal account set up at meghanmatt@gmail.com


Thanks in advance, yall!

Peace, love, and bringin.bebies.home,
xo
lmkw

theDuckling at 10 Months


These milestones are coming too quickly for me! James' first year flew by, sure- but Jackson's seems to have gone by in the blink.of.an.eye. I know that's what everyone says...

He's still our beautiful.thing... our tiny boy.joy.

I took him to his well visit at the doctor's the other day, and she measured his development. He's in the 99th percentile for height and the 97th for weight. After her assessment, she told me that his development was that of a 15 Month Old's. Which all boils down to one thing for me: he's growing just as he should be! All mother's worry to some extent, right? :)


He's got quite the personality, our littleDuck. He can say Momma, Daddy, and Uh-Oh. He can sign for 'more,' 'milk,' and 'all done.' It's so sweet to have him talk and sign... Needless to say, he's a great eater. Since I've made his bebe.food up to this point, he's already on table foods. He can tolerate the texture- so I can just mash things up with the back of my fork.

We are transitioning to a sippy cup- and he loves that! Jackson is just weeks away from walking. He insists on standing by himself- and can do it for about 5 seconds or so... now, if he can just get the feet going.

WHICH brings me to the next thing: His 'no' issues. :) He's a mover and a shaker! Which only means we have to reinforce boundaries all.day.long. BUT the good news is he is beginning to understand that 'No' means !NO!. :) I hope this trend sticks around... James has always been a good listener. I hope bebe.Bro follows suit!

Jax loves tub.time, swinging outside, his Blanket, and PandaBear. He can clap and play 'Pat.A.Cake.' He'll grab your hands and clap them together and say 'Pat Pat Pat' to get you to play... so cute. If you ask for a kiss, he'll bury his face in yours and make an long mmmmmmm sound with puckered lips. So that means we pretty much kiss all day--- and theHotness feels slighted. He loves snack time where he can pick up his own food... You Are My Sunshine is still his magic.song. His big.Bro is still his favorite part of the day- although he loves to tattle on Brother when he gets annoyed.

James Neal still dotes on his bebe. He's a gentle giant and knows accurately just what his brother needs at any given moment. It's so cute. If Jax cries when theHotness is changing his diaper- James has been known to leave whatever he's doing, run in the nursery and say- 'it's okay, Dad. I got this.' and then proceed to monkey.shine for his bebe. He knows Jax's schedule and can predict what he needs next. It's magical to watch them grow together...


I love theDuckling so much... he's pure joy... and the top of his head still smells like a warm slice of heaven. *sigh*

Peace, love, and bebe.bellies.
xo
lmkw

Monday, March 15, 2010

An Explanation and A Cowboy

Last week was a doozy for me. And that doozy tagged along after a two.week.stint of having sick boys (theLittle, theBigs, and theBiggest). What energy the illnesses didn't exhaust, last week wore the rest of me out. BUT I love my blog. Whether I feel up to writing or not... I hate to let it sit still. So before heading out of town with the boys on a solo (momma and bebies) trip, I wanted to blog a few backlogged thoughts...

Well, thanks to Blogger, I wasted an hour and 15 minutes of my time and brain. When I went to publish, Blogger ate away all of my post and left only the introductory paragraph. I felt defeated... and didn't think I could trump up the energy to correct it. SO... I pouted and fumed and then left for the weekend.

BUT

Now I feel refreshed and ready to give it another go.

Without further adiue:

James went to the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo... Two days of cowboy goodness.

He was born in Houston, and we've taken him every year- but this year was special. My dad called the morning before he was to leave for the houston.grandparent's house. "Can you have him ready in 30 minutes?" he asked me. "I'm coming to get my boy to go get some cowboy boots." I was in my red.rove unloading the dishwasher and waiting on my second pot of coffee to steep in the french press. SO without much warning, I dressed James for his big day out with PawPaw. I had settled with the idea that his 'city.cowboy.ish' gear would do again this year- but PawPaw had different plans. Off they went to The Western Store.

From what I hear, he had a BIG time. A shopping trip that first was meant to be for boots, after being fitted for the perfect pair, began to necessitate itself upward from the ankles: He needs real cowboy jeans for these boots. He needs a shiny belt buckle for these Wranglers. He needs a real cowboy shirt with pearl buttons for that fancy belt. Well, the boy needs a real Stetson cowboy hat for that shirt! See? It's really that easy... the slippery slope to parenthood. Or GRANDparenthood. I'm just glad I'm not the only one who goes a little overboard when it comes to the kids... Let's just blame the kids! I mean, James is so much fun. He has a huge imagination- and LOVES dress.up and pretend play. And everything is magical to him- so it's hard to hold back when he's so excited and suckers you in...

Plus, PawPaw and Nana are particularly proud of their little George Strait.











Oh, my sweet first.born. He's my little.marvel. I'm so happy he's ours.

So that is the first step in getting up back on track here. Stay tuned for a post a day this week until we are caught up. I've got Jax 10 month pics and stories... An update on my friend Meghan and her current situation STILL IN UGANDA... Tate's Birthday trip to Space... yada yada.

I'll be back soon. Promise.

Peace, love, and tiny.wranglers.
xo
lmkw

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

TheDuck

Everyone's favorite Duckling turned 10 months a few days ago...

He's learning so fast these days... which is neat to watch especially the second time around.

He's getting closer to walking and it's not a stretch to say that he's into everything. And I love it- because the trick is, it's not my first rodeo. It might be his... but not this ole girl's. Forgive the swagger- especially you mom's of 3+... but take this picture here for instance.

See that little caution lable on the bottom of the blinds? I'm sure it says something like, 'caution: keep bebies away cause they could choke on the cord or something.' When James was 10 months, those cords were tucked away months ago... but Jax got to explore for like... a good five minutes before I found him. No harm, no foul. What could sunshine hurt?



Ah, let's not give him too much credit. Kid's up to no good. There is something in his mouth. Found and foraged off the carpet. Most likely trash. Yes, candy wrapper from theHotness' pants pocket. Disgusting. But delish? *Again, Jax is trying to hide it from me... with that face and those eyes. But come on. I'm no newbie, kid. Get ready for the finger swab.
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"No really, Momma... if I were guilty, I'd look it. Or something."



and Voila. Oh the shame...




***I'd like to call this next series of photos 'What happens when you tell Jackson No'



Ahhhh, he spies my tassle on my new curtain panels... could be fun....

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A nice calm but firm 'No, Jackson.'

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Maybe she doesn't mean it? Grab numero two...
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'Jackson, No!' Oh, the horror.

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Okay, she means it... but does she have stamina? Can she resist the crazy.eye?

No- really lady, I'm cute and can outlast you...
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No, trust me kid, I've done this before... I can do it again. Bring it, bud. :)


So that's how far we've come in 10 months. I like it even more the second time around.

Peace, love, and theJacker.
xo
lmkw